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Hermaphroditus and Salmacis
By Dan Norder, ©1999, all rights reserved.


It came as no surprise to the nymphs on Mount Ida that the child placed in their care was beautiful beyond description. The boy, after all, was the son of Aphrodite, goddess of love and beauty, and swift-footed Hermes, messenger of the gods.

Just as he possessed the best attributes of each of his parents -- his father's natural athletic ability as well as his mother's charms -- so, too, did he take both of their names into his own. He was called Hermaphroditus.

Soon the child was not a mere boy, but a young man, longing to see the world. So he said goodbye to the nymphs who had raised him and ventured out to see what the rest of the world had to offer.

As he traveled through forests, past natural springs and along seacoasts, Hermaphroditus was entranced by the beauty that was all around him. And, perhaps because he was raised to accept such things, he would often meet the normally secretive spirits who protected these wonders.

The Oreads were the nymphs of the mountains, and included the ones who had nurtured him as an infant. And, although he knew their nature well, the new ones he ran into in his travels still managed to surprise him now and then by sneaking up on him noiselessly across boulders and loose rocks.

Dryads, if anything, were even more adept at concealing themselves. As forest nymphs they had more places to hide. But young Hermaphroditus would always eventually triumph over their natural shyness with his divinely handsome features and boyish charms.

By the rocky coasts of the sea, where the wilds from above meet the wilds from below, he chanced across some of the Nereids. Although they could not stay for long, as you could well expect of nymphs who tended such waters, they indulged themselves long enough for a short but pleasant conversation. And, after promising to introduce him to their Oceanid cousins if he should chance their way again, they flitted under the foam and across waves until he could no longer hear their giddy laughter in the distance.

Hermaphroditus also encountered the Naiads, protectors of pools and springs. One particular member of this group would change his life forever. This is as much her story as it is his.

The nymph Salmacis, who was as beautiful as Hermaphroditus was manly, lived in a fountain of perfectly clear water near Halicarnassus. There has been much debate by storytellers and philosophers about where the pool ended and the nymph began, or if there were any difference between the two at all. It is only safe to say they were the same, but also different.

Like others of her kind, she was the living spirit of the water she inhabited. Although she was also capable of walking away and leaving the place for a time, she rarely left the fountain. Salmacis preferred to lounge by the edge and arrange the ferns that grew there to her liking, gaze at her lovely reflection in the water or comb her hair until every strand was just exactly where she thought it looked best.

Other nymphs would join hunting parties in the forest or compete in races or other athletic events. Salmacis had no interest in such pursuits. Beauty was all that mattered to her.

Once one of her many sisters gave her a quiver of her own, thinking the gesture might prompt her to join in that day's deer hunt. Salmacis did not even pretend to be grateful. Without even a word of thanks or apology she threw the finely-honed arrows into a disorganized pile and walked into the woods to gather flowers in the now empty quiver.

As she returned with her sweet-smelling bouquet she heard splashing in her fountain. Infuriated at the thought that one of her deer-killing sisters may be daring to wash off blood from a hunt in her sparkling waters, she threw the quiver aside and ran the rest of the way.

But when she got there quite a different sight awaited. There was a man standing in her pool, washing off dust from his recent travels. This certainly would have offended her if it weren't for the fact that this man possessed a god-like physique and devilish handsomeness.

Although startled by her sudden appearance, Hermaphroditus spoke graciously, asking for forgiveness if his presence had been unexpected. Salmacis had never heard such a wondrous sound as this man's voice. And when he turned his head slightly as if to ask why she did not respond, she noticed the piercing glint of his eye and the strength of his jaw. Every single thing about him seemed to be more splendid than the best of any other man she'd ever seen had to offer. She was only moved to action when he turned as if to leave the fountain.

Salmacis quickly jumped in front of him to block his departure. She promised undying love if he became her husband, unquestioning servitude if he were a god, even exquisite pleasures if he just wanted a discrete lover. She swore all three and more if he would return her affections.

Hermaphroditus was startled and even a bit frightened by this sudden adoration. He was certainly used to a certain amount of attention, but this intensity went beyond anything he had experienced, seen or even conceived of. He decided his best chance was to run for the woods and try to sort things out later.

But before he could even start to flee, Salmacis detected his intent in his eyes. She leapt upon him in an instant. They both tumbled into the waters, legs and arms twisted around each other. For all his strength Hermaphroditus could not seem to free himself from her grasp.

The feeling of his skin upon hers only strengthened her resolve to never let him go. In near ecstasy, Salmacis shouted to the heavens, imploring the Fates or the gods or whomever would listen to never allow the two of them to be separated.

And somehow, from her strength of will and his divine heritage, between the thrashing of the pure water and the twisting of limbs, man and woman merged into one form. It had one pair of arms, one set of legs, one head and one face but was both male and female at the same time. The combination took the worst attributes of both beings but none of the good traits of either.

So Hermaphroditus, who was both male and female in name, cursed the pool for making him the same in body. To this day men hesitate to drink or bathe in waters taken from the fountain of Salmacis in fear that a similar fate shall befall them as well.